Tag: Family
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Heavy Mom Guilt: When You Lose Patience After a Long Day at Work
It’s 6:30 PM.You’ve spent the entire day juggling deadlines, meetings, emails, and endless to-do lists.You walk through the door, still mentally ticking off tasks — dinner needs to be made, laundry’s piling up, tomorrow’s prep isn’t done. Then your child wants you to play.But they’re whining. Maybe throwing a tantrum.You feel your patience slipping.You raise…
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Why “Me Time” Isn’t Selfish as a Working Mom
I used to believe that once I became a mom, especially a working mom, every spare minute should go to either my kids, my home, or my job. And if I even thought about taking time for myself—just to sit, breathe, scroll, sip coffee alone—I’d immediately feel a pang of guilt. Sound familiar? But here’s…
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When Is the Right Time to Return to Work After Maternity Leave?
The question of when to return to work after maternity leave doesn’t come with a universal answer. Every mother’s journey is unique, shaped by personal circumstances, financial needs, career demands, and emotional readiness. For some, the decision is made for them—by the nature of their job or financial situation. For others, there’s a little more…
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Navigating Toddlerhood with a New Baby: My Experience
When I found out I was expecting my second child, I was overjoyed. But beneath the excitement, there was also a lingering worry—how would my toddler handle it? The age gap between my daughters is 2.5 years, and while my older one was still very much my baby, she was about to take on the…
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How to Deal with a Passive Parent
Parenting works best when both parents are actively involved, but sometimes, one parent takes a backseat—either due to work, personal habits, or simply not knowing how to step in. A passive parent may love their children deeply but might not engage in daily caregiving, discipline, or decision-making. This can leave the more involved parent feeling…
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Why Having Only One Primary Parent Is Not Sustainable
Parenting is often an all-consuming journey, but when the responsibility primarily falls on one parent, it can lead to burnout, resentment, and an imbalance in the family dynamic. While many families naturally have one parent who takes on the majority of childcare—whether due to work schedules, personal choice, or societal norms—this model is often unsustainable…
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The Impossible Expectations of Motherhood: Why Women Aren’t Born Knowing It All
From the moment a woman becomes a mother, society assumes she will instinctively know what to do. We are told that motherhood is “natural”—that instincts will just kick in. But what happens when they don’t? The Pressure to “Just Know” Women are expected to do it all and know it all. We’re supposed to be…
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Nanny vs. Day Care: Choosing the Best Option for Your Child and Family
When it comes to childcare, parents often find themselves choosing between hiring a nanny or enrolling their child in a daycare. Both options have their advantages, but the right choice depends on multiple factors—including your child’s nature and your family’s financial situation. Understanding Your Child’s Needs Every child is unique, and their personality plays a…
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Parenting Two Children: How Focusing on the First Helped Settle the Second
When I had my first child, parenting felt like stepping into an entirely new world—one filled with uncertainty, sleepless nights, and the immense joy of watching a little human grow. The second time around, I expected it to be easier, thinking I already had the experience. But soon, I realized that parenting two children wasn’t…
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The Value of Cousins: Why Spending Time with Them Matters
Family is often said to be the cornerstone of our lives, and within this intricate web of relationships, cousins occupy a unique and cherished place. While immediate family members share your home, cousins share your heart. The time spent with cousins is not just about family gatherings; it’s an investment in relationships that can bring…
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