Tag: Children
-
The Importance of Having a Safe Person Outside Primary Caregivers

As children grow, their emotional worlds expand beyond the comfort and protection of their parents. While parents or primary caregivers form the foundation of love and trust, it is equally important for a child to have a safe person outside this immediate circle—someone they can turn to without fear of judgment, criticism, or disappointment. A…
-
Owning Up to Parenting Mistakes: Why Agreeing with Our Kids Matters

Parenting is a journey of learning, not just for our children—but for us too. In a role where we’re expected to guide, nurture, and protect, it’s easy to believe we must always get it right. But the truth is, we don’t. And one of the most powerful things we can do as parents is to…
-
Why I Forget the Basic Things

Yesterday, something happened that left me feeling a little shaken—and honestly, a bit disappointed in myself. We were driving back from a family function, and I was behind the wheel while my baby cried nonstop for the 10-minute ride home. Even though other relatives in the car were trying to soothe her, all I could…
-
How to Navigate Differences in Parenting Styles—GracefullyWhen family members step in to help, but the approaches don’t always align

Having family visit is a beautiful blessing for many of us raising young children. Their help, warmth, and bond with our kids are priceless. But it’s also true that when parenting styles differ, it can sometimes create a quiet tension, even when intentions are good on all sides. While we deeply respect each other’s way…
-
The Art of Self-Control and Thoughtfulness with Children

More often than not, I find myself trailing behind my own thoughts when interacting with my child. It’s a familiar pattern: she is engrossed in a task — perhaps playing quietly, building something, or simply exploring — and yet, driven by the buzzing list of “pending” tasks in my own mind, I interrupt.“Time for a…
-
Handling Your Toddler When They Hit You: Understanding and Responding with Compassion

If you’ve ever had your toddler hit you—whether with a tiny slap or an angry shove—you’re not alone. It’s a jarring experience, but it’s also a very normal part of early childhood development. Toddlers are still learning how to handle big emotions, and sometimes their little bodies react faster than their words or understanding can…
-
Comparison in Cousins: Learning to Let Go of the Pressure

The first time I felt it, I brushed it off. “She’s already talking in full sentences? That’s great!” I said, smiling. But when I turned away, I couldn’t help but glance at my own toddler—still mastering a few words, still needing me to understand their world through gestures and sounds. I told myself it didn’t…
-
Navigating Toddlerhood with a New Baby: My Experience

When I found out I was expecting my second child, I was overjoyed. But beneath the excitement, there was also a lingering worry—how would my toddler handle it? The age gap between my daughters is 2.5 years, and while my older one was still very much my baby, she was about to take on the…
-
6 Lessons for Moms to Embrace This March
March brings new energy—a time for growth, renewal, and reflection. As we step into this month, here are six valuable lessons for moms to embrace, helping us navigate motherhood with more grace, balance, and joy. 1. Let Go of the Guilt Mom guilt is real, but it doesn’t have to control you. Whether you’re a…
-
How to Deal with a Passive Parent

Parenting works best when both parents are actively involved, but sometimes, one parent takes a backseat—either due to work, personal habits, or simply not knowing how to step in. A passive parent may love their children deeply but might not engage in daily caregiving, discipline, or decision-making. This can leave the more involved parent feeling…
