Category: Family
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Why I Forget the Basic Things

Yesterday, something happened that left me feeling a little shaken—and honestly, a bit disappointed in myself. We were driving back from a family function, and I was behind the wheel while my baby cried nonstop for the 10-minute ride home. Even though other relatives in the car were trying to soothe her, all I could…
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The Art of Self-Control and Thoughtfulness with Children

More often than not, I find myself trailing behind my own thoughts when interacting with my child. It’s a familiar pattern: she is engrossed in a task — perhaps playing quietly, building something, or simply exploring — and yet, driven by the buzzing list of “pending” tasks in my own mind, I interrupt.“Time for a…
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Handling Your Toddler When They Hit You: Understanding and Responding with Compassion

If you’ve ever had your toddler hit you—whether with a tiny slap or an angry shove—you’re not alone. It’s a jarring experience, but it’s also a very normal part of early childhood development. Toddlers are still learning how to handle big emotions, and sometimes their little bodies react faster than their words or understanding can…
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Preschool as a First-Time Mom: A Week of Tears, Growth, and Letting Go

I thought I was ready.We had talked about school for weeks, packed her bag together, and practiced our goodbye routine. My toddler was excited—until the first day came. She cried.Clung to me.Refused to go in. And suddenly, my heart felt like it was breaking. The First Week: Sitting Just Outside Those first few days were…
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New Year’s Resolutions for My Toddler: Nurturing Growth and Joy

As a mom to a lively toddler, the New Year marks not just the passing of time but a new chapter in your child’s journey of growth and exploration. While traditional resolutions are often centered around personal goals, considering resolutions for your toddler can be a delightful way to foster their development and create memorable…
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The Illusion of Perfection in Motherhood: Embracing the Real Journey

Motherhood is often depicted through a lens of perfection – flawless pregnancies, serene nurseries, and impeccably behaved children. However, the reality is far from this idealized image. The illusion of perfection in motherhood can be a heavy burden for many women, contributing to stress, self-doubt, and a constant feeling of falling short. It’s time to…
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Balancing Acts: Navigating the ‘Who Does More’ Conundrum in Marriage

In the journey of marriage, couples often encounter various challenges. One of the most common and perplexing issues that can arise is the ‘Who Does More’ contest. It’s a dilemma that can gradually seep into the relationship, turning a once-loving partnership into a battleground of scores and comparisons. The reality is, many couples have found…
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Redefining Success: Finding Fulfillment as a Working Mom

The journey of a working mom is a delicate balancing act, filled with demands from both the professional world and the realm of motherhood. In a society that often defines success in terms of career achievements, it’s essential for working moms to take a step back and redefine success on their terms. By embracing a…
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The Hidden Realities of a Privileged Working Mom

In a world where working moms are often either applauded for their career accomplishments or criticized for their choices, a nuanced truth emerges—one that speaks of the intricate web of privilege and sacrifice they navigate. Being labeled as privileged due to financial stability can often overshadow the profound challenges that come with the territory. This…
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Dealing with Identity crisis as a mom: Navigating the Journey of Motherhood’s Identity Crisis

Becoming a mom is undoubtedly one of the most profound and transformative experiences a woman can go through. Amid the joys and challenges of raising a child, many mothers find themselves facing an unexpected struggle: an identity crisis. I was a carefree woman living theThe transition from being an individual to a mom can leave…
